When I was in business school I was misguidedly recruiting for investment banking and management consulting jobs. I would ask the MDs and partners at recruiting events why they stayed in their jobs for so many decades. The answer was (almost [1]) always the same: “I love the people I work with”. No offense to my many friends in banking and consulting, but I guess you gotta love the people you work with to put up with the challenging lifestyle, business travel, and work-life balance of working in a professional services role!
Over nearly two decades in industry, my best professional experiences track along this same theme. The most memorable roles that I have held featured two things: The opportunity to regularly get into a flow state to build something and amazing people with whom to build side-by-side. I’ve been fortunate in that there are several instances that I look back at and think, “Wow that was such a fun gig, I wish I could go back in time and relive those years!”.
The interesting thing is that what I was building did not really factor into my joy at work. While the past decade of my career has been on very cutting edge “sexy” technologies, the fond memories stem from the people I worked with and the blast we had together, not the specifics of what we built.
This leads to two dials to help guide one’s career. First, what percentage of your time at work is spent building and creating? This can mean writing code, designing circuits, creating UI, crafting a strategy, writing a PRD, or even building a team. Second, do you enjoy the people you work with? Would you hang out with them as friends if you were not working on the same team?
Of course, you cannot dial both of these to 100%. Every job has aspects which are unpleasant and a grind and every organization has difficult people with whom you have to figure out a working constructive relationship. Instead, think about what is under your control to increase either or both of these dials by 20%? 30%?
Lastly, think about your current gig and the people who make it special. Let those people know that they make it special. And hopefully, you are in one of those roles that you will look back at 10 years from now and think, “Those were the good old days!” [2].
[1] One person did say that his family had become accustomed to the lifestyle that his professional services job afforded and because of that he can’t quit even though he wanted to!
[2] Michael Abrash, Meta Reality Labs Research Chief Scientist